Tuesday, January 30, 2018

R17 61 Guest Blog: Masinga on Pre-Bridal Shower Prep

Beavo Does a Smile-o
I won’t lie, I had my reservations when the Boss and Norman said let’s throw a bridal shower/bachelorette party for Bandit during RAGBRAI. Do we really need more attention? Do we really want Team Beaver to be that team? I’ve rolled my eyes at some of those groups in the past. To say I was resistant is being nice. It also could have been the stressful last semester of my Master’s degree talking. The Boss checked in with Too Much and he was crazy about the idea! And so it was…

As the planning started taking shape, I found myself consulting on elements of a bridal shower and bachelorette combination, carrying (most) everything on our bikes, mostly the Boss’. We wanted the tasteful elements of a bridal shower you’d invite your lady friends, mother, and grandmother to in the morning. And a raucous bachelorette party you’d be embarrassed to have your mom at in the afternoon.

A sash and socks were purchased for Bandit to wear throughout the day. Special Team Bride glasses, champagne cups, and tattoos were procured. A plan was in the works to stash Jell-O shots and whipped cream at Pochy’s Mom’s place in one of the pass through towns. Other fun elements that seemed unnecessary, but hilariously appropriate were also purchased, much to my own and the Mayor’s chagrin. If we were going to do this, we were going to go all out, as a proper Team Beaver celebration would be.

In the week prior to RAGBRAI while I was waiting for my thesis to be approved by my advisor, I used my newly found free time to put together a few bridal shower and bachelorette party elements. Never have I ever dreamed of making a custom bridal shower invitation. Or recreating a Pinterest bridal shower game or two, and one fun craft for the bachelorette party (which we didn’t even use!!!) I printed, cut out, and laminated games. I also tracked down 20 golf pencils so we could play our games along the way.

As the final plans for this celebration came together, the Boss and I scoured the route in the Google Maps Satellite mode to find where we would set up our surprise party. I even offered to be the sneaky Beaver who would help ride out to the spot with the Boss. I don’t think my legs have ever gotten so warmed up so quickly on a RAGBRAI morning as they did that day. Sprinting out a few miles so we could be ready was quite a bit of work. It was worth it. I’m happy I surrendered to my Beavos who had these harebrained ideas. I did it for Bandit, and Too Much. My crazy Beavers care so much about each other that they are willing to go all out, as I would discover later in our week of secrets.


Needless to say, I think #BubblesAndBeavers and #MrsTooMuchJohnson was a day to be remembered. 

4 comments:

  1. I didn’t realize you had concerns about being a team that attracts attention.

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    1. I do. We get so much of it. I didn’t think we needed to be crazier. It’s like the Me-Offs swinging over peoples’ heads to me. I’m the worst elements of introvert and extrovert. I love being the center of attention but not when I know I have everyone’s attention. We’re fun and I was scared that if we were doing a bachelorette party we were just looking thirsty.

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    2. All said and done, the bridal shower/bachelorette party was a blast!!

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  2. THIS WAS THE MOST PERFECT THING TO EVER HAPPEN. I can’t believe how much thought and care went into planning this surprise — I truly had no idea and feel incredibly lucky to have friendos like the beavos

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